DeWayneTN wrote:I think it was a counterfeit $20 and the ushers should consider carrying around those pens.

You joke, but that is actually one of the reasons that was given to me at Assembly that we are not allowed to give change, in large public gatherings like that many have done that.
As for judging her by calling her tacky, I wasn't speaking about a specific person, but the practice in general. As I am sure you are aware as Christians we are told to judge actions, not hearts. saying we are judging the person because we are discussing an action is most of the time just an attempt to deflect the discussion. I've seen it in discussion of everything from homosexuality to tithing, and it just doesn't hold water. This person may not have been aware of these issues, may have never set foot in a church before, I don't know, and I can't judge her over it, but I can say, and I do say that the action is tacky, and should be avoided.
"Why would God allow Hitler his chapter in history? Why would God send a whale to swallow Jonah or turn a woman into a pillar of salt? Surely there were other ways. But I'll leave the particular methods of God to God."
-Spoken by David Abraham, Showdown by Ted Dekker