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dawgs10 wrote:It by no means is used to cull. Its used to educate people to what church they are joining.
Pastor Gary wrote:dawgs10 wrote:It by no means is used to cull. Its used to educate people to what church they are joining.
My problem with that is that I don't think anyone EVER knows it all or even necessarily has to AGREE with everything to join. If I was held to that standard myself I would have left 100 times during the days when I had serious issues with some of our past doctrines.
scooter wrote:Pastor Gary wrote:dawgs10 wrote:It by no means is used to cull. Its used to educate people to what church they are joining.
My problem with that is that I don't think anyone EVER knows it all or even necessarily has to AGREE with everything to join. If I was held to that standard myself I would have left 100 times during the days when I had serious issues with some of our past doctrines.
Response: I have had those impromptu moments and have taken people in without classes. I normally wait for a batch. I'll have a basics teachings class one or two Sundays during SS.
I'm a bit leary of a wide open approach where anyone can join at any time.
I don't take in people living together/shacking up. Should I?
I'm sorting through some of these issues.
Good discussion.
Pastor Gary wrote:
No - I don't take in anybody who walks in the door, and NO, you shouldn't admit shack-ups to membership. What I am talking about is people who have attended regularly, participated in the life of the church, but somehow never joined. I have had those people surprise me by walking forward when others were up to take the membership covenant, and I — personally — receive them with no further prerequisites than our church polity dictates... in other words, saved.
scooter wrote:Pastor Gary wrote:
No - I don't take in anybody who walks in the door, and NO, you shouldn't admit shack-ups to membership. What I am talking about is people who have attended regularly, participated in the life of the church, but somehow never joined. I have had those people surprise me by walking forward when others were up to take the membership covenant, and I — personally — receive them with no further prerequisites than our church polity dictates... in other words, saved.
Response: The problem arises when the shackups show up.
Let just say you're taking in members and a couple come up that having been hanging around, then a "couple" comes up that have been coming a couple of weeks and they're living together. That's when it presents itself, to me, as a possible problem area.
To me a simple member's class shields you from the problem.
scooter wrote:Pastor Gary wrote:
No - I don't take in anybody who walks in the door, and NO, you shouldn't admit shack-ups to membership. What I am talking about is people who have attended regularly, participated in the life of the church, but somehow never joined. I have had those people surprise me by walking forward when others were up to take the membership covenant, and I — personally — receive them with no further prerequisites than our church polity dictates... in other words, saved.
Response: The problem arises when the shackups show up.
Let just say you're taking in members and a couple come up that having been hanging around, then a "couple" comes up that have been coming a couple of weeks and they're living together. That's when it presents itself, to me, as a possible problem area.
To me a simple member's class shields you from the problem.
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